Tag: Life
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Doing Something as If Our Life Depends on It
When I started my professional career, someone told me that being a professional meant doing something as if our life depended on it. That definition has remained with me throughout my career that I can see when my work does not mean that way. Over the years, I have done several things with that level…
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Where Are We Headed?:
The question is simple. The answer might take us a lifetime to find. And perhaps most of us will be nearing the end of our lives by the time we figure it out. That is why I think we need both a long-term and a short-term outlook on life. If we stretch the long term…
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The Art of Being Ordinary
In my twenties, I knew someone who told me that we should not settle for an ordinary life. So many people live ordinary lives, he said, and we should strive for something extraordinary. At that time, I never asked him what an extraordinary life meant. Looking back now, I feel there is perhaps nothing more…
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The Hidden Cost of Misalignment
One thing I have noticed over the years is that the cost of misalignment rarely arrives as a dramatic failure. More often, it accumulates through small moments of friction that seem insignificant on their own. It shows up in small ways. A conversation that needs to happen twice. A decision that remains unclear. A dependency…
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Loneliness is not always Alone
There comes a point in life when you feel alone and realize it is not because you are physically alone. It is because you have become disconnected from yourself. No one can do that work for us. People can support us, but the journey of finding ourselves is one we must take alone. Some of…
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Between Fear And Awareness We Create Our Life
Last weekend an interesting thought surfaced. We are probably the only animals that do not step outside our shelters fearing that another animal might eat us alive. That is part of how humanity evolved, and in many ways it is a beautiful thing. But with that evolution also came the awareness that death is inevitable.…
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When people remember you
I was not much of a reader as a kid… I loved movies and playing and fooling around. I always ran the opposite direction from books and words. But then somewhere in my late twenties I felt I was being left behind. I was not able to understand life like others did (I still don’t…
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Thoughts on Dostoevsky‘s idiot
There is a sentence in Fyodor Dostoevsky‘s ’The Idiot‘ related to the main character Prince Myshkin that goes something like this.. ’Compassion may be the only law that governs mankind‘ (though I will change that to humankind than mankind) How true and simple but at the same time how incapable we become to embody that…
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Why can’t we be Good?
I was introduced to Jacob Needleman‘s work in 2012. Pretty much the same time I was entangling myself with Jiddu Krishnamoorthi inorder to be free 😄 Through Jacob Needleman‘s work, I was introduced to Gurdjieff and his works. And even today I go back to all of them from time to time in my life.…
